Strength!

I was reading my Bible last night and was reflecting on the things God has allowed in my life these past few weeks.  It seems that the more time that goes by, the more I feel emotional and erratic. I know that this will be an ongoing issue in my life but it is still hard to process the difficult times in our lives. 

When I think about having a miscarriage and then also having to go through the last days of someones life that is dear to my heart, I ask myself how is the right way to deal with it, is there a right way, should I and could I be dealing with it different?  Or maybe I am just over analyzing this whole thing and just need to let myself feel the emotion and pain. What is the right thing to do?

This is what I have come up with: God is love!
I was reading Acts 3 and something clicked...
In this passage we see Peter and John going to go into the Temple and they come across a lame man.  He asks Peter and John for some money and this is what happens:

Then Peter said, Silver and gold have I none; but such as I have give I thee: In the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth rise up and walk. And he took him by the right hand, and lifted him up: and immediately his feet and 

ancle bones received strength. 

Acts 3:6,7

This passage spoke to my heart.  God took this man from weakness and made him strong.  We all have times of weakness (I know I do).  But God is our strength. God took this man where he was, He took him by the hand in the condition he was in and not because of an expected outcome. God also lifted him up.  God did not wait for the man to stand on his own.  He picked him up and set him on his feet. And then the miracle happened, God strengthened this man. 

Don't you see... This is what God does with us too...
He holds my hand when I am weak.
He lifts me up when I am weak.
He strengthens me when I am weak. 

And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness.  most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.  Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ's sake: for when I am weak, then am I strong.  

2 Corinthians 12:9,10 

Paul is talking about his own weakness and how God used his weakness to show him that God is enough.  He is enough for all of us.  When we are weak, God's love shines through.  He is able to work in our lives like never before. But this is the best part, He is with us the whole way.  

I also had one more word catch my eye... Beautiful. 

And a certain man lame from his mother's womb was carried, whom they laid daily at the gate of the temple which is called Beautiful,...

Acts 3:2a

Coincidence? I think not.  He was placed by the gate that was named Beautiful.  I looked at this and tears came to my eyes.  I truly believe God finds our shortcomings, our faults, our handicaps as Beautiful.  His Glory and Grace shine through them.  I am not perfect (if I was, I would not be in an imperfect world), but I chose to be a light that will be used for His honor and His glory no matter what trials or burdens may enter in. God is love!

I Give You a Little of My Heart

It has been a long while since my last post and I wanted to share a little of my heart with you all.  I do not like to write a blog about just anything, so I wait for inspiration and the loving words of God to come to me.  So when things come into my life, I wait for God to teach me something and that God wants me to share that with you.  I wait till God says write.  And then I do. 

These last few weeks have been trying and emotional.  As I reflect on them I can't be more grateful for the love of God.  It is amazing how God gives you that special peace in difficult times.  In the past few weeks I went through the process of the miscarriage of our third child.  And this process is still ongoing. 

I want to share with you what I have learned so far from this time in my life.  This will be a learning process as time goes on and I am so grateful for that.  First off I want to tell you I am OK!  Not that I am great or fantastic or depressed or a mess (which I may be all of those at some point during this time in my life) but I am OK! 

Today was a blessed day.  God knew what I needed and He gave it to me.  He gave me exactly what I needed.  I got to hear some amazing men get up and Preach the Word of God in a way that moved me and showed me the Love of God.  My husband preached about the faithfulness of God.  He has been faithful to me every day of my life.  And then I got to hear my Pastor preach a message on being content.  I can truthfully say that I am very content with my life at this moment.  Now to be honest, tomorrow that may change.  But through the words these men were saying, I knew God was speaking directly to me.  And it was amazing.


This is what God has shown me in the past few weeks:   

Philippians 4:7  And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.  

God's peace cannot be matched.  Everything in this world is temporary.  Good times come and hard times come, but the peace of God is understanding that He is right there with you, going through everything with you.  His peace is understanding that He loves you so very much. 

Romans 8:39  Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. 

Ephesians 3:19  And to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge, that ye might be filled with all the fulness of God.

  

For a few moments last week all I could think of was what did I do wrong for this to happen to me?  Do I deserve to have more children?  Well... I put that out of my brain real quick.  I know the love of God.  He does not zap you because of something in your past.  If you are His child, He has already forgiven you.  He loves you unconditionally.  Yes, we may all have hard and difficult times, but my faith tells me that everything will work out in His timing.  His grace is sufficient. 

2 Corinthians 12:9  And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me.

If this world was perfect, we wouldn't have hard times or sadness, hurt or heartache.  But this world is not perfect because we are not perfect.  The valleys come and go and the mountain tops come and go but God stays right by our sides.  He listens to me complain, He holds me when I cry, He laughs when I say silly things, He rejoices when I trust in Him.  

I am amazed at the love of God.  His love is unmatched by anything this world can offer.  His love sent His Son to die on an old rugged cross for me.  If I was the only person on the earth when Jesus, the sinless Son of God, walked it, He would still have taken my punishment on Himself.  Why would God send His Son to die for my sin if He didn't love me?  

I feel His love toward me.  My desire is to share that love with amazing young ladies and women because He said you are worth it.  And you are!

 

When we found out we were pregnant we thought it would be great fun to surprise the boys and take them to Build A Bear.  It is great fun for the boys to do this.  Before we went in, I asked them if they would like to create an animal for their new baby.  They looked sad and replied, but we want one too... It was too cute and I knew what the response was going to be.  So I told them that if they pick one out for the baby, they could get one for themselves as well.  This is the bear they chose.  They named her Gumdrop.  It's little things like this that lets me know God loves me.

Friendship!

I have been thinking of the blessing of friendship lately and how I can be a better friend to others. And this is what came to mind...

Friends are a gift from God, but just as the slogan of a well liked Peanut Butter says, "Choosy Mom's Choose Jif," Choosy people Choose their friends. 

I love to make new friends and be a friend, but there are certain things that lead to a successful life.  One of those things are going to be your friends. 

A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.  

 Pro 18:24  

These friends that we are choosing should show themselves worthy to be your friend just as you need to show them you are worthy of being a friend.  

 Here are a few more things God has to say about friends:

Pro 17:17(a)  A friend loveth at all times

Pro 27:6  Faithful are the wounds of a friend

Pro 27:17  Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.  

Ok... So, from these verses we see that (A) a friend should love you know matter what, you should love your friends no matter what with all their imperfections and their human issues. (B) A friend will tell you the TRUTH!  When someone is trying to be a friend and help you grow at the same time, let them and when you need to help a friend grow, be kind and loving while doing it.  (C)  Your friends should make you feel good about yourself, you should make your friends feel good about themselves.  

God has given us the great gift of friendship... 

Be a good friend,

And choose good friends. 

Something to think about:

Exo 33:11  And the LORD spake unto Moses face to face,

as a man speaketh unto his friend.

This verse makes my heart so happy.  God is the greatest friend you will ever have.  All the things I wrote up there, God is the master of it. 

A Good Listener.

Being a good listener is something we all need to work on.  Especially me.  I am horrible at being a good listener.  God on the other hand is a great listener.  He loves to listen to His children. 

The LORD hath heard my supplication; 

the LORD will receive my prayer. 

Psalm 6:9

Listening is a skill we are not born with.  It is something that takes many years to accomplish.  It needs to be worked on and practiced.  

From the time we are born we are selfish and believe that our voice is the only one that should be heard.  Over the childhood years we learn that the world does not revolve around us.  And when we are adults we find out that we do not need to give our opinion every time we want to.  

Being a good listener is an area that God can show us how to do very well if we would listen to Him.  

 Stand in awe, and sin not: commune with your own heart upon your bed, and be still. Selah. 

Psalm 4:4

Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth.

Psalm 46:10

The number one way we can learn how to be a good listener is to be still.  

BE STILL and Listen to your parents, 

BE STILL and Listen to your teachers, 

BE STILL and Listen to your Pastor, 

BE STILL and Listen to your Elders, 

BE STILL and Listen to GOD!  

And he said, Go forth, and stand upon the mount before the LORD. And, behold, the LORD passed by, and a great and strong wind rent the mountains, and brake in pieces the rocks before the LORD; but the LORD was not in the wind: and after the wind an earthquake; but the LORD was not in the earthquake: And after the earthquake a fire; but the LORD was not in the fire: and after the fire a still small voice.

1 Kings 19:11,12

God has a still small voice, calling to us.  He is there whispering to us, waiting for us to listen to Him.  If we do not make a point to BE STILL, we will never hear the calling of God or the warning of the Holy Spirit or our parents.  We will not be able to grow to be good student or a good worker.  We will not be able to be a good friend or a helper to someone in need.  We will not become good parents or good wives.  

God has really been working on me with this.  I am a horrible listener, but I am working on it.  I am trying to become a better listener and in doing this I will become a better friend, wife, mother, helper, disciple, witness, worker, daughter, sister, and child of the King. 

My job is not to tell you how much I know but to show how much I can learn and maybe you will want to do the same.

The War is Already Won!

 Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.  

For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.

Matt 11:28-30

As I think about how hard life can be at times, especially as a teenager with pressures from everywhere coming at you all at once, I think about these verses.

As the tough times come, sometimes we don't deal with them in the right way.  We get depressed and down and we don't act the way we should or do the things we know we should.  We let our "despair" take over and we give in to it.  We eat more junk food, shut ourselves away, and step out of life.  This is easy to do.  

I remember being a teen and having times when I would let my feelings control me and consume me.  And it is still something I struggle with.  But I have learned over the years that the best way to get out of your funk, is to do the opposite of what you feel like doing.

  

For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh,) dwelleth no good thing: for to will is present with me; 

but how to perform that which is good I find not.  For the good that I would I do not: but the evil which I would not, that I do.

Romans 7:18,19

 Your life is in your hands.  This verse really shows us that what we should do, we rarely ever do.  We love to think about doing good but we are more likely to be selfish and live for ourselves.  I am in control of my actions.  I can let myself be in a funk and consume my life with my pity party or I can force myself to do something and feel great after I am done.  

In Matthew 11:28-30 God tells us that if we turn to Him and take up His yoke (what He wants us to do), we will find rest because His yoke is easy and His burden is light.  When we turn to Him and do the things we know we should, He is there to take our burdens off of us.  He is there carrying our load and holding our hand while caring for us and loving us.  

So, what does God want us to do?  He wants us to love and trust in Him.  Read His word and pray.  He wants us to put others before ourselves.  When we do this, it gives us perspective.  I know that sometime I feel overwhelmed with life, but there is no way I would want to trade with anyone else.  God has given me the grace and faith to go through my life.

If you are having a hard time with life, remember, God is there for you and He wants to carry you through the tough times.  He wants His sons and daughters to be happy, content and living the abundant life with smiles on our faces. God is so good.  He loves you very much.

Living Life with NO Regrets!

I want to start by saying "HI!"  I know that it has been a while since I posted last, but it has been a very busy week and a half.  As many of you know I was in Sacramento helping a very dear person in my life.  She is 63 years old and is preparing to be with the Lord very soon.  With all that is going on in her life I started to think... I want to live life with no regrets.  

What does this mean?  I will start by telling you what I don't mean cause when people (especially young people) talk about living life with no regrets or living life to its fullest, you tend to think that you are to live the way you want to, do the things you want to do and just be selfish. This is not what I mean at all.  

I will tell you that there are plenty of things that I am not proud of and that I regret very much from my past.  Most of them where done when I was doing what I wanted to do and when I was being a selfish person.  I still make mistakes and regret them.  That is a good regret.  It helps me to see what I need to steer clear of the next time that situation comes around.  I need the Holy Spirit helping me to stay out of trouble.  

When I talk about living life with no regrets, that means that I am not going to live my life without God.  I mean that I am going to give up my selfishness so I can live for God.  I want to live my life for others.  Caring for people and showing them God's love.  

Some people may think that I shouldn't have to go and help a friend who is dying or a family that doesn't quite know how to deal with such a great loss in their lives.  But I have something to say to that, I will not live life with regrets.  I will not let people think that they have to go through hard times alone.

Most people run away from situations like this.  It is hard to deal with the loss of someone you love.  I know because my husband and I went through this same situation about 7 years ago.  We did go through it by ourselves and we chose to ignore what was going on.  We didn't know where to turn for help.  And I regret it.  I regret not being there every chance I could be.  I regret my selfish attitude.  I regret not letting others help us deal with the pain.  And I wont do it again.
 
I will walk toward the hurt and the pain so that I can be a blessing and a help to someone I love dearly.  I will be there every chance I get to visit and learn more from a woman who has such a great view on life and knows the love of God.  

She has had many regrets in her life but she has also lived life with no regrets.  She has trusted in God for her salvation and all of her needs and wants.  She has been a blessing to many and most of the time has given up her own desires and needs to fulfill the needs and wants of others.  When she enters the gates of Heaven she will see all the lives she touched with her presence, with her great attitude and her love for God. She will never regret being a great wife, mom and grandma.  She will never regret being a great friend, counselor and confidante.  She will never regret living her life for others.  She will never regret living for and loving God.  


Don't live a life full of regrets, live your life with no regrets.

Marilyn & Chet

In the beginning...

It is a new year and a new start.  As I start this year I hope to accomplish many things.  One of them is to really start this Blog for all of you wonderful teen girls.  And one of them is to follow a Bible reading schedule.  On the first day of the year we explored the creation story.  The first verse tells us that "In the beginning..." and it made me think.  

Did you know that God knew who you were, He knew your name, how long you would live, how many hairs you would have on your head, when you would accept Him or deny Him, what you would wear today, how you would act today, what you were going to do tomorrow?  

He knew it all from the start.  He knew you from the start.  Now the question is, Do you know Him?  Do you know how much He loves you, How much He does for you?  Do you know (truly know) what He did for you?  

It amazes me to know that with the many times I have ignored Him or pushed Him away or have been a reproach to His name, that He is still there, loving me and caring for me, being my cheerleader and my coach and my teammate.

Many of you feel alone at times and don't know where to turn.  I ask you now to turn to God.  He is there for you and will be there when you call on Him (and you wont have to wait because He is right there when you need Him).

There are many things that I hope to accomplish with this fresh start.  I hope that we all get to know Him as much as He knows us.